Counseling
- For whom? For what?
Ideally
it is a need of everyone.
What is
counseling? Is it giving advice? Convincing others? Labeling? Guiding or evaluating?
Not
anything like this. Then what is it all about?
If our
body has fever, we take medicines. But we neglect the needs of our mind.
Negative emotions such as depression, frustration, guilt, irritability, tension
take entry without our notice and then rule our mind and we are not even aware.
We have no idea about what to do and how to clear these clouds. There is
distancing in close relationships. Counselor helps us to solve this riddle.
Some
problems are such that leave us in confusion, indecisiveness. As if you are
standing at junction, there are 4 roads in front of you. Any path you take, you
are bound to have problems and struggles. You are in dilemma about which way to
go so that you face minimal problems and struggles and reach your destination
for sure and as early as possible. Counselor being out of the problem is
detached from associated emotional chaos. You can reach to a rational decision
after discussion with counselor.
But then
is counseling limited to remedial role only? The answer is “No”. Special
efforts are taken for beauty, physical fitness but not for mental fitness
simply because you are unaware about it. The scope of counseling is not limited
to remedial and only during the time of stress.
We wish
that we should not have to encounter with certain problems. Sometimes we can
foresee some problems and are also aware that if we prepare ourselves in
advance we can face the problems more efficiently and can cope well. With the
help of counseling we can take certain anticipatory and preventive measures.
We are
leading a happy life. But we do not know the ways to improve our mental
strength, capacity, immunity to make life happier. Counselor can help you plan
your life well.
Counseling
is the need of the day. It is an experience of one relationship. What you get
out of it? A key to happiness? No. Happiness is not outside but lies within you
only. You are just searching it in wrong places. Counselor just shows you the
mirror.
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